A Day in the Life

"Brace Face"

2011-09-10T11:06:00.005-04:00

So, I have had my braces for just over a week now and this week has certainly been quite the adjustment.

I got them Thursday afternoon and the pressure I felt on my teeth for the first couple of days was just... odd. There really wasn't a lot of pain, just throbbing every so often as my teeth were moving in to position in the trays.
The other main thing I had to get used to for the first few days was the extreme amount of extra saliva that was being produced in my mouth! It was crazy! Whenever I talked I felt like I was spitting all over everyone and everything that was in my path. I actually felt the need to talk with my hand in front of my mouth so I wouldn't spray :) That actually seems to be subsiding now as my mouth gets used to having that foreign object in it 24/7.

My orthodontist impressed me greatly when I got a phone call Friday evening from the doctor himself asking me how I made out my first full day of having them and to answer any questions I might have come up with. It made me feel better to know everything that was happening was normal and I wasn't just a freak of nature LOL.
One problem I did have to ask him about was that the edge of my bottom tray was rather rough and it felt like it was scratching or cutting the inside of my lip. He had an easy solution for that for me: just take a normal, every day emery board and file the edges smooth! I did that and they felt much more comfortable. And now I know how to check and fix that problem with any of my new trays before my lip becomes endangered.

Aside from still having a slight lisp and slur to my speech I think I have been adjusting to them quite well over this past week. I feel like a dork when I drink my coffee through a straw at work but it works. I tried to make it cool at least by getting neon bendy straws :)
I have quickly fallen in to the routine of taking my trays out when I eat and then brushing my teeth before putting them back in. I now even carry a little travel toothbrush and toothpaste in my purse for those times I am not at home. I was given 2 cases to put them in when I take them out so I have one in my purse and one by my bathroom sink. One thing's for sure - by the time this is all done my teeth will be the cleanest they've ever been considering the number of times I end up brushing my teeth in a day!

This coming Thursday I go back to the orthodontist to have "buttons" or "attachments" bonded to a few of my teeth to help with the moving process. They are tooth colored so supposedly they will not be visible very easily either. I will then wear my current tray for another week after that before switching to the next. My orthodontist will give me the next few sets of trays - which are all in their own numbered package so I know which one is next - and I will switch those every 2 weeks.

So far this has been quite the experience and I am interested in seeing how it all plays out over the next 12-18 months... And you get to ride it with me :)

"The Call"

2011-08-31T10:29:00.001-04:00

Just got that call from my orthodontist. Tomorrow afternoon at 4:15 I have an appointment to get my first set of Invisalign trays...

-- Posted on the run from my iPhone

Back to School!

2011-08-22T19:23:00.009-04:00

That's right! Today was Sweetpea's first day back at school. I am now officially the mom of a 3rd grader! And boy is it hard for me to get those words out....

She is super excited and had a fantastic day. This is the first year she gets 2 teachers over the course of the day - 1 for reading, writing, etc and 1 for math, science and social studies. It's also her first year of having a male teacher... but she says both are great.

Sweetpea all ready to go!

There's also her gifted classes she's excited about this year too - that I believe start next week. This year they are studying Egypt and she is super excited to get in to that.

And showing off her new backpack "Nerds Rule"

Sitting at her 3rd Grader desk

I think she's going to have a great year!

A Life with Braces - Step 1

2011-08-04T21:17:00.014-04:00

You read that right. At 34 years of age I have to get braces. Now, I had no idea I had teeth problems. My teeth look great - at least I thought they were until my dentist mentioned it. And now I can notice what the issue is.
My top teeth, instead of coming straight down, are coming down at an angle in towards the inside of my mouth. This is putting undue pressure and rubbing of both my bottom and top teeth. This is causing my teeth to wear and crack - to the point I actually have fracture lines on my front teeth.
The braces are going to move my teeth back in to the correct angle and improve my bite so my teeth will stop wearing away. How long is this going to take? About 12-15 months - maybe longer depending on how my teeth respond.

Now, I'm not one to worry about how things look so I didn't have a problem with the possibility of having a mouth full of wires and brackets for a good year and a half. But there are more choices these days aside from the "old fashioned" braces that everyone is used to. The choice I have made is In visalign.

My orthodontist was really good at explaining out and describing all the choices I had when it came to fixing my teeth. And after listening to them all, I decided that, for the ease of care alone, Invisalign was the best route for me.

This route, if appropriate to use for what you have to have fixed, is the easiest for adults to adjust to. You don't have to worry about the discomfort of having all those wires and brackets in your mouth. And you can take them out for eating and cleaning your teeth. The best part is the ease of still getting your regular teeth cleanings with your dentist. No trip to the orthodontist first to remove the wires, then to the dentist for the cleaning, then back to the orthodontist to have the wires put back on. With Invisalign, you just pop them out for the cleaning and pop them back in when you're done.
Mind you, they are more expensive than "normal" braces but I think that for the ease alone it is worth it!
Today I went for my consultation, paperwork and set up. Of course, since each Invisalign is made for each individual, you don't get them right away.

I had to get "molded" so my orthodontist can then send them to the company to be made just for me. They should receive my personalized set of trays back in 4 weeks. That's when I go back and really get the ball rolling.

Now, the molding experience was a deal in and of itself! They had these special molding trays that they put some nasty tasting stuff in and then stuck to my teeth for 3 minutes! Top and bottom, one at a time. The part that sucked the most was that they had to do the top twice because the first time my back teeth got cut off! So they had to force the tray farther back in my mouth the second time and I had to overextend my jaw and hold it for 3 minutes until the mold set! Very uncomfortable, I tell you! And when they pulled the molds off my teeth, it was stuck to my lips as if I had gum stuck on them and I had to peel it off. And the taste of the stuff lingered!

After that, they had to do another set of molds for their own use. Fortunately, I got to pick a flavor for that one (watermelon!) and it was one mold, my mouth closed around it to get both top and bottom at the same time. But my mouth still hurts, hours later!

But now the first hurdle is done. I should be getting a phone call in about 4 weeks from my orthodontist telling me my Invisalign is ready for me... and that's when the real fun begins!

She's Here!!

2011-07-22T17:29:00.000-04:00

My Sweetpea is home!!

-- Posted on the run from my iPhone

14 Days - The Final Stretch

2011-07-21T22:03:00.002-04:00

OK, so I got bad at blogging every day. But, honestly I thought it was getting too boring to tell everyone about what I did EVERY day while Sweetpea was gone.

My best friend was here until Monday so I had a nice long weekend with her and her family - keeping my mind off the fact that Sweetpea was not around.
Still talked to her every day. Yesterday she even told us she didn't want to come home because she was having so much fun! So, of course, we told her she had to come home because 1) my mom has to go back to work and 2) the hugs and kisses she gave us before she left had run out so we needed more. Her response to that? "I can mail you some more"... Sometimes she's just too smart for her own good!

It's been nice having some time for us for the past 2 weeks and being able to do what we wanted to do when we wanted to, but at the same time it just didn't seem right. Somebody was missing from our little family.

Tomorrow is Friday. That means we get a whole weekend of being a family together before getting back to "normal".

4:30 tomorrow afternoon can't come fast enough!!

14 Days - Day 9

2011-07-17T22:45:00.003-04:00

I MISS MY LITTLE GIRL!!!!

Do you think I said that loud enough? :) I'm proud of myself for lasting as long as I have... but I am really missing Sweetpea now!

I think that's all I have to say about today...

14 Days - Day 8

2011-07-16T22:18:00.001-04:00

I'm going through withdrawal now. Today was the first day since she's been gone that I wasn't able to talk to Sweetpea. I haven't even heard her voice today :(
Right now they are staying in a little town by a lake and don't have very good cell phone reception. We'll have to try again tomorrow.

Had a good day with my friend and her family, though - with a quick detour in the day for Hubby and I at the walk in clinic. Him, ear infection. Me, bronchitis. Fun times!

We did brighten the day with a trip to the movies to see the new Harry Potter movie. So we had something else to focus on for a few hours.

Now, here we sit at 10:00 at night in Denny's getting a very late dinner (we weren't hungry earlier after eating all that popcorn)...

One more day closer to Sweetpea coming home. They can't move fast enough!

-- Posted on the run from my iPhone

14 Days - Days 6 & 7

2011-07-15T23:06:00.002-04:00

The last couple of days have been hectic - obviously since I didn't blog about yesterday :)

My best friend from Canada has come down with her family and I've been hanging out with them the past couple of days. I took today and Monday off work so I get a nice long weekend to just hang out and spend time together. It's actually helped with missing Sweetpea because I'm busy doing so many other things.

Sweetpea is sounding good. We talked to her tonight and she was more excited to talk to Daddy today than Mommy. Today she spent the afternoon in a "man cave" - a basement just filled with Superman things and pinball machines. So, of course, she had to go on and on to Daddy about everything that was there.

They were on their way to the lake when we talked to them tonight and they may not have good cell signal where they are so it may be a couple of days before we're able to talk to her again... that's going to make it harder to not miss her :(

The past couple of nights I have been cuddling and sleeping with the monkey she gave me for Mother's Day a couple of years ago. I'm glad she's having a good time, but I'm ready to have my girl back now, please and thank you.

14 Days - Day 5

2011-07-13T22:01:00.002-04:00

5 days without Sweetpea hugs and kisses. 5 days and I'm still surviving. I miss her to pieces. I'm just not falling to pieces.

She sounded good tonight when we talked to her. Very happy. They were back at my grandma's house today and Sweetpea loves spending time with her Granny. I could hear in her voice how happy she was being there and that made me feel better. She wasn't feeling sad or homesick.

There are still 9 days to go but my BFF is going to be here tomorrow so that should help me keep my mind on other things for a few days.

Let's see how fast these next 9 days can fly by!!

14 Days - Day 4

2011-07-12T21:58:00.001-04:00

Still so far so good. I only called Sweetpea once today :)
And Hubby and I had a nice quiet evening at home - not trying to keep ourselves busy doing other things.

Sweetpea is having a wonderful time. She sounded so happy and excited when she was telling us about her day. She is behaving and even helping out with things at whatever house they happen to be at on that day.
They're re-locating again tomorrow so there will be new things in store for her and I know she can't wait.

This is good for her... but I still miss her.
I love my girl!

14 Days - Day 3

2011-07-11T21:14:00.002-04:00

Today is Monday so that meant back to work for Hubby and I. It was at least a distraction from a quiet house. It was just like a normal day - until we came home to that quiet house.
It's been nice for us, though because we've been able to sit and watch our television shows without having to wait until Sweetpea goes to bed. That means we can catch up on more before I have to go to bed :)

It sounds like Sweetpea is having a great time. I was at least able to get more than one-word answers out of her this evening when we called her. She wouldn't let me know but my mom says she believes Sweetpea is having a little bit of homesickness but she gets over it quickly. Hopefully it won't hit her too badly as the trip progresses.
I was thinking that calling and talking to her every day would help keep that at bay, but now I'm wondering if it makes it worse...
My days without her are made better by talking to her so, for now, I'm going to keep doing it :)

3 days and I'm still sane. So far, so good.

14 Days - Day 2

2011-07-10T21:48:00.000-04:00

This has been quite nice actually. A Sunday spent doing what we wanted to do, when we wanted to do it.
It was nice to be able to just take a nap in the afternoon and wake up when we felt like and decide about food. No "I'm hungry. What's for dinner?" No "What are we doing today?"... Don't get me wrong, at the same time I missed that and I miss her but it was quite the novelty to not have to plan around somebody else.

We talked to Sweetpea twice today. She is having a wonderful time. It seemed to be a chore to have her stop what she was doing to talk to Mommy and Daddy, typical child :) I'm glad she's having a great time. I'm glad she's happy. But in my world, it's not the same just hearing her voice twice a day... Maybe next time I'll have to record it so I can play it whenever I want to :)

14 Days - Day 1

2011-07-09T13:22:00.004-04:00

Sweetpea has left us for 14 days. And to help get me through I have decided to blog each day's experiences and emotions.

Sweetpea and my mom left us yesterday afternoon to vacation in Canada for 2 weeks. Now, she has been away from us before but this is the longest time yet. I know that at 8 1/2 years old she is a big girl and I know she's going to have a great time visiting with family and friends - I'm not concerned about her. I'm concerned about the lack of her presence in my day to day life for a whole 14 days!

Today has been good so far. Today is just her being at a sleepover which she has done many times. I talked to her this morning and I'm sure I will talk to her again tonight.
Today has been a good day for Hubby and I to just enjoy the day together doing something or doing nothing. Not feeling we HAVE to do something to keep a little girl occupied. Today is a good day.

Today has only been Day 1.

Virtual Rally

2011-04-18T18:18:00.002-04:00

This is an email I got today from the Alzheimer's Association and I wanted to share it since this is something that is near and dear to my heart.
Please help us win the fight against Alzheimer's!

From April 17-May 30, you can illuminate the fight against Alzheimer's disease by participating in the Alzheimer's Association Virtual Candlelight Rally. Light a candle to tell your story and take action in the fight against this devastating disease that affects millions of Americans.

When you light a candle, you can post a message to honor or remember an individual and spread awareness about Alzheimer's disease. You can also make a donation to help advance the care, support and research efforts of the Alzheimer's Association.

Our online event occurs in conjunction with the Candlelight Tribute Rally in Washington, D.C., part of the annual Alzheimer's Association Advocacy Forum. On Sunday, May 15, hundreds of Alzheimer's advocates from around the country will gather in the shadow of the United States Capitol to raise their voices as they celebrate and honor people who have been affected by Alzheimer's disease.

They gather to let our nation know that time is of the essence; that we cannot wait; that we must do all we can right now to change the course of Alzheimer's. And you can join them by being a virtual participant in the rally.

Light a candle and tell your story. Your support will light the way to a world without Alzheimer's disease. Donate, become an advocate and help us tell Congress to make Alzheimer's a national priority.

Sincerely,

Robert Beatty
National Director

Whirlwind!

2011-04-09T11:23:00.003-04:00

So I'm looking at my blog today after adding a new widget and I realize the last time I posted was to ring in the new year!
In that post I wanted the new year to be better than 2010... and, by my lack of posting, it has certainly been a whirlwind of a year so far.

January I spent out of work. Shortly after the holidays, I was suddenly no longer working at the Clinic I had worked at for almost 6 years. A new company had come aboard and took over and it was suddenly not the same place to work as it had been for all those years. It felt like I was never home with my family and I didn't have a free weekend anymore. I just wasn't happy there anymore and it carried over in to my personal life as well. So I closed the door on that aspect of my life and hoped another door would be open soon.
It took a month, but I was able to find another job that fit much better with what I wanted for my family. A Monday-Friday, 9-5 job that meant I was home every evening, every weekend, and every holiday. It did mean having to give up some of the other things that I had enjoyed over the years - volunteering at Sweetpea's school, getting together with friends during the days I wasn't scheduled to work , and just plain old having some time to myself on my days off - but overall those were little compared to the bigger payoff of having a more regular work schedule where I knew when I was working and I could be home in the evenings to give Sweetpea, and the family, a proper evening routine. I also had to get used to a 30 min drive to work compared to a 5 minute drive, but, again, in the long run the pay off is worth it.
I've been there a month and a half now and it's been wonderful! I'm still trying to get over the fact that there really are things called weekends :) And I can go to work every day and know that I am appreciated for what I am doing - and am told so on a regular basis. That definitely makes for a more enjoyable work environment!

February went fast for us. January-March is Girl Scout Cookie season and, being the troop Cookie Mom, I have a big hand in the pot on that one! February and March just flew by before I knew it. Cookies come in the end of February and then March is cookie booth month. It seemed every weekend in March was accounted for with Girl Scouts in one form or another.

March was also a tough month for my family - marking the year anniversary of that black day in my life when my Dad suddenly passed away. But we got through it as a family. And from here I'm hoping it just starts to get easier. Of course, there will always be those moments, but I think it's getting a little easier for me to handle every day. We have been trying to get together more often as a family and I think that helps Mom out more too. You really don't know how lucky you are to have such a close-knit family until something like this happens and you need to lean on each other a little more. We are certainly blessed.

And now it's April already - with no sign of a slow down in activities. April 17th marks hubby and my 12th Anniversary. We also have family and friends coming down to visit the end of the month. And then, of course, we have Easter... it just seems like it's never ending!

But even with all this going on, I am going to try to bring this blog back to live again. I will keep my eyes open for interesting things. I will try to have some witty and insightful posts on those quiet days :)
I'm still trying to come up with a "theme" for my blog. Some topic to focus on. But as of yet I haven't been able to think of anything exciting. If you have any ideas for me, feel free to let me know! But, for now, you'll all just have to deal with my ramblings on life.

That's it for my ramblings for now. I will try to post a little more often from this point forward :)
It's a beautiful day outside! I'm off to enjoy my weekend!

A new year begins

2011-01-01T00:44:00.000-05:00

And here I am hanging out at my mom's with all my family ringing in the new year.

Normally I don't stay up to welcome in the new - but this year I wanted more than anything to wave goodbye to 2010 and cheer hello to 2011.

2010 was, quite frankly, a horrible year and I wanted nothing more than to see it go. 2011 can only look up.

Here's to looking to the stars in 2011!

Happy New Year!

-- Posted on the run from my iPhone

Merry Christmas to all...

2010-12-25T19:25:00.000-05:00

It's hard to believe, but Christmas has swept through rather quickly.

Honestly, I wasn't really excited for the holiday season this year. It was Dad's favorite time of the year. He loved having family and friends getting together. And he loved getting in to the holiday spirit - he was like a little kid come Christmas Day. He'd put on his Santa hat and deliver all the gifts under the tree - one year he crawled so far under we had to help him get out!

This year was going to be horribly different. I was trying to get in to the spirit for Sweetpea's sake but I could never totally get in to it. At least not until Thursday afternoon when I got surprised by 2 of my cousins showing up at work! Even better was when I finally got out of work and headed to mom's only to find my mom's entire family had come down for Christmas - it wasn't just my cousins!

Suddenly, what could have been one of the worst Christmases in my book became one of the best!
It was going to be just the way Dad would have wanted it!

So here I sit, after a crazy hectic day, surrounded by family and relishing in the good feelings of Christmas again.

I want to think Dad somehow had a hand in bringing us all together this year - for the first time in 17 years!

Merry Christmas, Dad! I love you!

-- Posted on the run from my iPhone

Awarding Evening

2010-11-17T21:55:00.005-05:00

Tonight we went to see Sweetpea's re-dedication to Girl Scouts and to get her Brownie patches that she has earned so far this year.
It was great to see how the Troop has grown from our first ceremony of 5 girls to the 14 girls we have today.

At the end, Sweetpea got to give her Savannah gifts to everyone from the Juliette Gordon Low House. She was a little shy, as usual, but she also got to tell everyone about visiting the house. They were all very appreciative and thanked her for bringing them back something.

I just can't believe how big and grown up she's getting! And I hope she continues to enjoy her Girl Scouting as much as she does today.

Button, Button, Who's Got the Button?

2010-11-15T20:06:00.006-05:00

The first weekend of November, hubby, Sweetpea and I - along with my mom and in-laws - took a nice little family trip to Savannah, GA.
I had never been before and was looking forward to the wonderful architecture and learning the history of the town. Sweetpea, of course, was looking forward to seeing Juliette Gordon Low's house - the founder of the Girl Scouts. Of course, the weather change was just a bonus for me :)

What I wasn't expecting was to make an amazing find. While wandering around all the little shops Saturday morning, my mom and I made our way into a little antique shop. There, I happened to find a ring. A ring that is made from an antique button. There were a few of them there - as well as some bracelets and necklaces incorporating antique buttons.
In talking with the owner of the store, I learned that the company, Grandmother's Buttons, creates various jewelry pieces using antique (circa 1880s-1910s) and vintage (circa 1920s-1950s) buttons.
They are all one-of-a-kind and they each come with a Certificate of Authenticity.

When I got home I found their website and have been looking at the different pieces they create. They are all just beautiful!
If you're looking for that unique gift for somebody, I think you should definitely check them out!

All Hallow's Eve

2010-10-30T19:26:00.004-04:00

Thanks to my hubby for this one.

The night before Halloween has been known forever as All Hallow's Eve. Neil Gaiman, an author, realized there weren't enough holidays for people to receive books... So he decided to create one.

But rather than have me tell you all about it, I'll have him tell you about All Hallow's Read himself.

I think it's a great idea and hubby and I celebrated it today with Sweetpea and our nieces.

We think everyone should celebrate it!

-- Posted on the run from my iPhone

It's the most wonderful time of the year...

2010-10-20T22:14:00.003-04:00

No, I'm not talking about Christmas (although that too is quickly approaching). I'm talking about Halloween - one of my favorite holidays! Yes, maybe it is because it is also my birthday, but I just love watching kids (and adults) get excited about dressing up in costumes and being something different for a night. We all want to be something different at one time or another, don't we?? And Halloween gives us the chance to do that without anyone asking questions :)

I know this is old - you see it around everywhere this time of year - but I just wanted to take a moment to pass along some Halloween safety tips. You never know... maybe there is that one person out there who has never seen or heard them. And I just did my part to help them out.

Walk, slither and sneak on sidewalks, not in the street.
Look both ways before crossing the street to check for cars, trucks and low-flying brooms.
Cross the street only at corners.
Don't hide or cross the street between parked cars.
Wear light-colored or reflective-type clothing so you are more visible. (And remember to put reflective tape on bikes, skateboards, and brooms, too!)
Plan your route and share it with your family. If possible, have an adult go with you.
Carry a flashlight to light your way.
Keep away from open fires and candles. (Costumes can be extremely flammable.)
Visit homes that have the porch light on.
Accept your treats at the door and never go into a stranger's house.
Use face paint rather than masks or things that will cover your eyes.
Be cautious of animals and strangers.
Have a grown-up inspect your treats before eating. And don't eat candy if the package is already opened. Small, hard pieces of candy are a choking hazard for young children.

Remember - you can still have fun while being safe!

Here's wishing everyone a fun and safe Halloween! Trick-or-treat!

PCOS Awareness

2010-09-02T20:41:00.003-04:00

September is PCOS Awareness month. PCOS (Polycystic Ovary Syndrome) affects millions of women - and half of them don't even know they have it. For that reason, the month of September is dedicated to raising awareness of this syndrome so that more women can be helped.

Why is this important to me? I have PCOS. I, like many others, didn't know what it was or had even heard about it until I was diagnosed. I didn't get my first period until I was 14 - and it became, and stayed, very irregular. I always had a battle with my weight, but shortly after getting married, suddenly gained 100 pounds for no explainable reason... and doctors couldn't give me any explanation for my weight gain other than "You're just happy in your life and settling down". What???
I wasn't diagnosed until I was trying to conceive and was having no luck. It took trips to several different doctors and several blood tests to finally pinpoint the issue. And, like most people, I had no clue what it was I was being diagnosed with.

What is PCOS? It is the most common female endocrine disorder, affecting approximately 5%-10% of all females. It is a hormonal disorder that involves multiple systems within the body, and is believed to be caused by insensitivity to the hormone insulin.
Some common symptoms include: irregular or no menstrual periods, irregular ovulation, excess facial and body hair, ovarian cysts, and weight management difficulties. It is not necessary to have all of these symptoms to have PCOS. In fact it is not necessary to have "polycystic ovaries" to have PCOS. PCOS manifests itself differently in each woman. I, for example, have never actually been diagnosed with having ovarian cysts. Also, about 40% of women with PCOS are of normal weight - some even under. Unfortunately, I am not one of those.

PCOS cannot be cured, but it can be managed. Diet, exercise and, in some cases, medical intervention can do a lot to help eliminate PCOS symptoms. Management of PCOS is essential. If it remains unmanaged, it can progress to diabetes and can lead to certain forms of cancer.

That's why it is so important to make women more aware of this syndrome so they can get treatment.
Maybe you have a mother, daughter, sister or friend who is overweight and not sure why. Perhaps a female friend suffers from excess facial hair but thinks it is only a cosmetic problem. Tell them they can start by taking the quiz at http://www.pcosupport/quiz.php which will help them to evaluate their risks and guide them toward seeking help from a doctor.

Help spread the word about PCOS. You never know who may learn from us and in turn, get the help they need!

*Facts from the Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome Association

Rebirth

2010-06-27T20:04:00.003-04:00

So it's been just over 3 months since my last post. Obviously, I haven't been in the right place to do any blogging - it's been pretty rough for me these past few months and for a long time I wasn't really in a good place.

The time has gone fast and it's hard to believe it's been 3 months already since that black day in my life. Although it's still not all sunshiny, I think it's time for a rebirth, so to speak, of my blog.

Time to get back to the book reviews, movie reviews and whatever else I find entertaining enough to talk about.

Hopefully it'll be something worth reading :)

RIP Daddy

2010-03-14T17:33:00.001-04:00

I'm sitting in the airport. Waiting for my plane that has been delayed by 5 hours.
I'm in shock. My parents have been in Arizona on vacation. We get a call from my mom yesterday that my dad was in the hospital in critical. Within the next half hour I'm told he didn't make it.
My brothers, hubby and I are trying to get to Arizona to help out my mom and see him one last time. He will be cremated there then come back home to Florida where we will have a memorial for him.

So here we all sit drinking in honor of dad and reliving many years waiting for our plane.

He is gone way too soon. I am not supposed to lose my dad in my 30s. I miss him terribly already.

I love you Daddy!

Cheers!

-- Posted on the run from my iPhone

Idol's Top 12

2010-03-11T21:08:00.015-05:00

The votes are in. America has decided their Top 12 and, for the most part, I'm OK with it. There's only one I would change - and that would be with the girls. I would have had Lacey and Katelyn change places... but I'm only one person. At least the guys and gals I definitely wanted in are in.

And here are the Top 12 - in no particular order:
(Info and photos courtesy of America nidol.com and About.com)

Aaron Kelly, 16 - Sonestown, PA
Auditioned in Orlando

Aaron Kelly has revealed on the show that he had a rough childhood, which eventually led to him being adopted by his aunt and uncle. He says what separates him from the rest of the contestants is his "ability to reach out to the audiences and put a smile on their faces." His first big performance was singing karaoke at a family gathering.

Favorite quote: "Don't let the fear of falling hold you down"
Musical influences: Rascal Flatts, Keith Urban

Andrew Garcia, 24 - Moreno Valley, CA
Auditioned in Los Angeles
When he auditioned, Andrew spoke about his tough upbringing by parents who used to be involved with gangs. Andrew is now a proud dad who says fatherhood “gives you more of a reason to do what you love and to appreciate everything you have.” Andrew, who started singing at age 18, also loves to break dance in his spare time.

Favorite quote: "Live for today"
Musical influences: My friends are my influences because they are singers/musicians as well

Casey James, 27 - Fort Worth, TX
Auditioned in Denver
Casey James says he is an animal lover. "I love pretty much any kind of creature, especially dogs," he says. But his biggest passion is music. "Whether this works out or not, I’m still going to continue to play music," Casey says.

Favorite quote: "Be happy in your situation. It could always be worse."
Musical influences: Way too many to list. I am influenced by everything I hear.

Crystal Bowersox, 24 - Elliston, OH
Auditioned in Chicago
Crystal Bowersox is a free spirit who has a giant sunflower tattooed on her back. Her interests include knitting hats (dread caps especially), sculpting, drawing and "making people feel at home." She is the mother of a one-year-old.

Favorite quote: "Success ain't about the money. It's about doing what you love."
Musical influences: Glen Hansard, Janis Joplin, Jewel, Tracy Chapman, Melissa Etheridge, Bobby May, Ron Rassberry, Brian Walker, Ray LaMontagne

Didi Benami, 23 - Knoxville, TN
Auditioned in Los Angeles
Didi told a moving story about her best friend Rebecca passing away. The loss of her best friend helped to inspire Didi to try out for the competition. Didi enjoys playing the guitar and writing songs.

Favorite quote: "Nothing great was never achieved without enthusiasm"
Musical influences: Adele, Norah Jones, Angel Taylor, Sheryl Crow, Joni Mitchell, Alana Davis, Patty Griffin, Sarah McLachlan, Amy Winehouse, Paul McCartney, Jason Reeves, John Lennon

Katie Stevens, 17 - Middlebury, CT
Auditioned in Boston
Katie Stevens grew up in a large Portuguese family. She is fluent in Portuguese. Katie's grandmother, who suffers from Alzheimers, is a great inspiration in the young singer's life. "I want her to see me succeed in my dream before she forgets who I am,” Katie said. Katie plays guitar, piano, flute and cello.

Favorite quote: "It's an opportunity. Take it and run"
Musical influences: Whitney Houston, Taylor Swift and my brother

Lacey Brown, 24 - Amarillo, TX
Auditioned in Orlando

Lacey Brown auditioned in Idol's eighth season but was cut from the Top 50."You've got to take nos and turn them into yeses," she said before she auditioned for the second time.

"Individuality is something to be grasped and held on to and celebrated. I think I’m pretty comfortable in my skin." Lacey says her non-singing talents include her weirdly fast pinky toe movements.

Favorite quote: "Do what you love to do and you'll never work another day in your life"
Musical influences: Pete Yorn and Patsy Cline

Lee Dewyze, 23 - Mount Prospect, IL
Audtioned in Chicago
Lee DeWyze admits that he was kicked out of high school when he was a teenager. "That’s totally not who I am now,” he said. Lee, who is also good at art, says music is his true passion. "I know that this is exactly what I’m supposed to do," he said. "This isn’t like a question. There’s no backup plan...This is what I have to do. This is what I’m going to do.”

Favorite quote: "Try to live in the moment"
Musical influences: Cat Stevens, Simon & Garfunkel, Eric Clapton, Ben Harper

Michael Lynche, 26 - St. Petersburg, FL
Auditioned in Orlando

Michael, whose nickname is Big Mike, endured Hollywood week while his wife was at home giving birth to their first child, a baby girl. Before the Hollywood round aired on Fox, there were rumors that Michael was cut from the show after his father violated the show's confidentiality agreements by talking to a newspaper about his son's status. Michael, who grew up in St. Petersburg, FL, played football for the University of Central Florida.

Favorite quote: "Facts don't count when you have a dream"
Musical influences: Maxwell, Lauryn Hill, Al Green, Jimi Hendrix

Siobhan Magnus, 19 - Cape Cod, MA
Auditioned in Boston
Siobhan Magnus says her tolerance for pressure might set her apart from other contestants. "I’m a very responsible person," she said. "I’ve witnessed a lot where I have been forced to grow up and be able to handle things that are very stressful...I think I have a pretty good tolerance for pressure and meeting expectations." Siobhan, who works at a glassblowing shop, loves scary movies and calls herself a "babysitter extraordinaire."

Favorite quote: "Sing as if no one were listening"
Musical influences: Janis Joplin, Billie Holiday, Lauryn Hill, Courtney Love, Johnny Lang, my dad, Stevie Wonder, David Bowie... the list goes on.

Tim Urban, 19 - Dunanville, TX
Auditioned in Dallas
Tim Urban was sent through to Hollywood, where he left an impression on the judges. When Top 24 contestant Chris Golightly was found to be ineligible for the competition, the judges called on Tim to replace him.

Tim, who has nine siblings, was homeschooled by his mother. He has been playing the guitar since he was 13 years old.

Favorite quote: "Expect the worst but work for the best"
Musical influences: John Denver, James Taylor, One Republic, Jack Johnson, John Mayer

Paige Miles, 24 - Naples, FL
Auditioned in Dallas
Paige Miles auditioned after the death of her aunt. "The last thing she said to me before she passed was to audition for American Idol," Paige says.
Paige Miles describes herself as a reserved homebody - even though she has tons of energy. "That has a lot to do with being a cheerleader," she says. Paige performed for the first time when she was only seven years old. "I knew at that moment that I loved having that microphone in my hand and I haven’t put it down since," she says.

Favorite quote: "Sing as if no one were listening"
Musical influences: Michael Jackson, Patti LaBelle, Lauryn Hill, Christina Aguilera, Celine Dion and Etta James

And the theme for their first week? The Rolling Stones!
Should make next week very interesting!

Girl Scout Week

2010-03-09T17:36:00.005-05:00

Sweetpea has been a Girl Scout for 2 years now - ever since she was old enough to start. And on a regular basis she tells me "I want to be a Girl Scout forever".
She has been having so much fun and has made some really good friends. Not to mention that it is teaching her life lessons as well and how to be a great person in the community.
I think it's one of the best things I could have introduced her to! And I really hope she does stick with it to the end.

This year, Girl Scouting is celebrating it's 98th year!

The following was sent to me from Girl Scouts of West Central Florida

Girl Scout Week ~ March 7th - March 14th

Being a Girl Scout means being part of a worldwide organization that builds leadership skills by providing girls with opportunities to discover their interests, connect with others and take action in the world around them.
This Friday, March 12, we celebrate 98 years of Girl Scouting!
Some fun facts about Girl Scout Week:

Girl Scout Week is celebrated each March, starting with Girl Scout Sunday and ending with Girl Scout Sabbath on a Saturday, and it always includes the Girl Scout Birthday, March 12. Girl Scout Week 2010 is March 7-14, with Girl Scouts' 98th birthday celebrated on Friday, March 12.
It all started when Juliette Gordon Low made her historic telephone call to a friend (a distant cousin), saying, "I've got something for the girls of Savannah, and all of America, and all the world, and we're going to start it tonight!"
The first Girl Scout meeting was held on March 12, 1912 in Savannah, Ga.
Girl Scout Week is a great time to reconnect, join, volunteer or donate to Girl Scouts of West Central Florida. "Make the World a Better Place" isn't just part of the Girl Scout mission statement. It's a real and lasting commitment that will continue to make Girl Scouting relevant for the next 98 years and beyond.

Locally, GSWCF partnered with Stiles Property Management - in honor of GS week, the top of the SunTrust building in downtown Tampa will be lit green in the evening and overnight hours the entire week! We have also reached out to several government officials across our eight-county jurisdiction asking them to proclaim this Girl Scout Week. For more information on Girl Scout Week, and to see resources made available in the March issue of GS Express, please visit our website.

Happy 98th Birthday to the Girl Scout organization! Here's to at least another 98 more!

Recap: Idol's Top 10 Girls

2010-03-03T21:49:00.000-05:00

I've been saying from the beginning that the girls are the "stronger sex" in this year's competition. But I was torn this week. I still think there were more stronger performances than not but I think last week was a little better.

Crystal was the first one out and she just let it all out! You wouldn't have known at all that she had been so sick and in the hospital.

Haeley is just downright annoying. She does need to stop smiling so much. She's got the biggest mouth it's unreal! She drives me crazy.

Lacey - I don't know what she's doing but both weeks now she's been unable to keep the beat. I was actually surprised she stayed around after last week.

I give the bad outfit prize to Michelle. What the heck was up with her "dress"... or whatever you call it? And those glove things? Huh? Maybe I'm just not up on the whole fashion thing, but to me that just looked a little ridiculous.

I was honestly a little disappointed in a lot of the girls tonight. I was expecting a lot more out of them. I think they're just picking the wrong songs.

My absolute fave for the night is Crystal. But my other faves were Katie, Lilly and Katelyn.

Tomorrow we'll see which guys and gals survived.

Southern Living Blogger of the Week goes to...

2010-03-03T10:57:00.004-05:00

... my good friend The EcoChic!!
I know it's kinda late in the week for me to pass this along - but it's been a crazy week for me.

I remember when EcoChic just started out - doing it for a hobby, just for fun. And now she's famous! LOL She's done a lot in the past few years and I am very proud of her for what she's accomplished. I love you C!!

Take a second and check out Southern Living's Mama Blogger of the Week and see for yourself how great she is!

Recap: Idol's Top 10 Guys

2010-03-02T22:31:00.001-05:00

The guys went first this week as a last minute change because one of the girls was sent to the hospital.

I think the guys got scared by last week's performances! For the most part, the performances were better. There were, of course, the off guys but I expected that because the guys just don't have it this year.

One of the best improvements of the night, in my opinion, was Alex. He's still not "there" but he did "grow" from last week. He was also one of my favorites of the night. I think because he had made such a huge difference.

The one guy with the "huh?" factor? That had to be Todrick! I don't know what the heck he's been doing the past couple of weeks, but if he keeps doing it, he ain't going to be staying around!
I'd be surprised if he sticks around to try again.

The one with the weirdest outfit for the night has to be Jermaine. And when he talked about "rockin' the onesie" I just shook my head. Did all of America really need to see that?

My faves were the night were my hometown boy Michael, Alex and Casey but, in my opinion, the best for the night was Lee - and it wasn't just because he sang a song I love LOL

Hopefully Crystal will be well enough to perform with the girls tomorrow night.

Recap: Idol's Top 12 Guys

2010-02-24T22:36:00.001-05:00

I was hoping for a better start for the guys tonight but was sadly disappointed.
The first one out completely ruined a good song on top of singing a style of music I don't like. Now, I know that a lot of others probably do since that seems to be "the style" today, but if I'm going to vote I'm going to vote for something that I actually enjoy listening to. And I didn't enjoy listening to that.
Then Aaron comes out and sings a very apropos song of "Here Comes Goodbye"... did he see the future? He mumbled over the words and was off key on some of the notes... but the judges seemed to like him so I guess we'll see what the rest of America thinks. I'm only one person.

I wasn't really impressed with any of the guys until the 6th, Tyler - and even then it wasn't the greatest.
The best of the night didn't happen until the last 2 performers!

After watching the performances the past couple of nights, unless the guys kick it up a notch or 2, it's going to be a ladies' competition this year.

Recap: Idol's Top 12 Girls

2010-02-23T22:19:00.002-05:00

It's that time of year. The time of year I like to talk about my Idol thoughts and opinions each week.
Now, I am no expert and I am definitely no singer. I just know what I like and what I don't like. I don't get technical. I just say it as I feel at the moment.
And with that all said, here goes.

Since this is the first voting week, I was kind of expecting everyone to be ready to show America their best. However, I was quite unimpressed with the first 3 singers of the night. But then the 4th, Lilly, performed and showed them what it was all about. From there it just started to get better. And it has nothing to do with the fact 3 singers in a row sang Beatles :) I think they just knew what to do with the songs they chose.
Then, just as I was getting my hopes up, Lacey was a complete train wreck! Then Michelle picked it up again. It was definitely an up and down night. It's all about song choice and some of the girls just didn't pick the right songs.

Overall, I think the girls are all strong this year - as long as they pick the right songs. It's going to get harder as the numbers get lower and lower.

My faves for the night were Michelle, Didi, Crystal and Katie

Tomorrow night - the guys' turn.

Retreating for the Weekend!

2010-02-19T15:56:00.004-05:00

The one weekend I've been waiting for since we started the tradition last year has arrived!
It's our 2nd Annual Scrapbook retreat weekend!
Four days, 3 nights of nothing but scrapbooking! No husbands, no kids... just a group of women sitting back, relaxing and scrapbooking.
There are 11 of us in all. It's like one huge sleepover!

We are in Inverness, FL at a place called All Seasons Scrapbook Resort. It's basically a house that has been converted into a huge scrapbook haven! The garage has been turned in to the cropping room and the bedrooms have bunkbeds so there is enough room to accomodate 12 people total. And each room is themed to a season - Spring, Winter, etc. Kitchen, pool, lake, television, internet... all the comforts of home without being at home :)

We had a great time last year and this year is turning out to be just as fun - if not a little more so because we're here for an extra day.

I haven't even gotten through this weekend and I am already looking ahead to next year.

If you are a lover of scrapbooking, you should certainly check it out!

According to Phil...

2010-02-02T19:18:00.002-05:00

Well, the groundhog has spoken... and it looks like we're in for 6 more weeks of winter.

I guess it's a good thing we live in Florida! I just hope those of you who don't live in Florida don't suffer too badly in their extra 6 weeks...

Review: Need

2010-01-31T13:55:00.004-05:00

Zara White suspects there’s a freaky guy semi-stalking her. She’s also obsessed with phobias. And it’s true, she hasn’t exactly been herself since her stepfather died. But exiling her to shivery Maine to live with her grandmother? That seems a bit extreme. The move is supposed to help her stay sane... but Zara’s pretty sure her mom just can’t deal with her right now.

She couldn’t be more wrong. Turns out the semi-stalker is not a figment of Zara’s overactive imagination. In fact, he’s still following her, leaving behind an eerie trail of gold dust. There’s something not right - not human - in this sleepy Maine town, and all signs point to Zara.

In this creepy, compelling breakout novel, Carrie Jones delivers romance, suspense and a creature you never thought you’d have to fear.

I picked this book up because the back stated that if you got Stephenie Myer and Stephen King together to write a novel, this would be it.
From the moment I started reading the first page, I got the Stephenie Meyer "Twilight" vibe - Zara's stepfather has died and her mother worries about her being depressed so she sends her to live with her grandmother in a small remote town in Maine (there's the Stephen King). When her car spins out of control (hello Edward), she's rescued by sexy Nick who turns out to be a werewolf. He, of course, isn't the only "paranormal" character in this town.

It's a true genre book and a fast read. Once I picked it up I didn't want to put it down - especially once I got into the middle when all the clues started coming together.

If you love the teen reads and the Stephenie Meyer-esque feel you should definitely try this one out.
Now that I have finished it, I am anxiously awaiting my trip to the bookstore to pick up the second in the series, "Captivate".

Give a Day, Get a Day

2010-01-18T20:49:00.005-05:00

Last year it was get in free on your birthday. This year, Disney is doing a "Give a Day, Get a Disney Day" program for tickets.

Basically, you search their site for the available volunteer opportunities with various organizations in your area. You sign up, show up, do your work and Disney will send you a voucher for a 1-day, 1-theme park ticket.

Today, Sweetpea and I did our giving. One of the opportunities in our area was to help out at one of the local Girl Scout camps - perfect volunteer job for a Girl Scout to do :)
We showed up and they had a list of different things that they wanted to be done. I had Sweetpea pick which one she wanted to do and she chose to clean up the dead trees and branches around the cabins.
Luckily, a couple other mom/daughter groups signed up for that as well - so off we went.

We all worked really hard - and boy do my muscles feel it now! Sweetpea said it was fun and was having a good time and made some new friends in the girls that were working with us. One of them was also a Girl Scout.

We accomplished a lot in the 5 hours we were there and feel we really earned our ticket!

If you haven't done so yet, go check out the program and see what is available to you - there is a wide range of things... some as simple as donating blood! It's for a good cause - whether or not you get something in return for it (although I'm sure that's helping). We both feel good about what we did today, and I'm sure you will too!

Sweetpea standing in front of our first pile of branches.
It didn't seem like much until she stood in front of it and it was as tall as she was!

Review: The Fab Four

2010-01-11T11:27:00.002-05:00

Saturday night hubby, Sweetpea and I had the opportunity to see The Fab Four - the Ultimate Beatles Tribute Band.
These guys are so awesome that, if you didn't know any better, you'd think you were listening to the real thing.

There's no recordings - all live, all Beatles. They have fun. They sound great. They get the audience involved. They even include costume changes in order to represent each phase of the Beatles' career.

From the very beginning, through Sgt. Pepper, to the ending years it's like a trip back in time. It's like each performer is channeling the spirit of his Beatle and bringing him back to the stage. The mannerisms, the voices, each little facial tic - it's incredible.
When performing "Yesterday", Ardy Sarraf IS Paul McCartney... and "Imagine" - Ron McNeil becomes John Lennon.

Now, I'm not the full out Beatles fan that hubby is, so I wouldn't know if there was any little thing that wasn't Beatles... but he says they were spot on!
And for an everyday enjoyer (if there is such a word) of their music, it's a great experience.
Sweetpea got so into it that she was singing and dancing right along with them.

If you are even just a little bit of a Beatles fan, you should definitely check these guys out when you have the chance! And if you're not, you should check them out anyway - you'll at least get some laughs.

Another Year Has Gone By

2009-12-31T21:56:00.004-05:00

Although a lot has happened this year, it still seems like it flew by.

2009 brought the birth of my third niece as well as the daughter of one of my bestest friends (who I still can't believe will be turning 1 in a few short days - love you Little B! Now stop growing!)

2009 marked my 10th Wedding Anniversary. I still can't believe that one! Talk about time flying by! A lot has happened these past 10 years and after it all I still feel like I definitely married the one guy I was meant to be with.

2009 was the year Sweetpea had her first major injury - her broken finger. It was the year she started 1st Grade and rode a bike without training wheels for the first time. She went to her first major league baseball game (one of many for the season) and attended a few live shows.

For me, 2009 really wasn't a bad year. There was definitely more good than bad. I made some new friendships and strengthened others. I was able to spend some quality time with Sweetpea between Girl Scouts and volunteering at her school. We were able to spend some quality time as a family when we spent the weekend at Disney. And although we didn't get away for our annual Annivesary trip, hubby and I were still able to have some quality time together throughout the year.

It was also a year for me to discover some things about myself and come to some revelations. For now, I am happy with where my life is. No more fretting about another baby. I am enjoying spending time with the adorable little girl that I have and she's certainly not "suffering" being an only child. That may change down the line, but for now I'm going to stop wasting so much time worrying about it. If it's meant to be, it will happen.

Resolutions for the New Year? I never make any. Why? Because I would be too busy worrying about keeping them instead of just letting things happen. The only "resolution", of sorts, I make for myself is to enjoy the year to the best of my ability and just "go with the flow" with whatever may come my way. Yes, that is difficult at times but I do what I can.

So, as 2009 comes to a close and 2010 knocks on our door, I just want to wish everybody out there a Happy New Year! May 2010 be safe, happy and healthy for you and yours! *cheers*

Merry Christmas!

2009-12-24T17:34:00.000-05:00

I know I've been a blog slacker lately. Life in my household has became crazy with the arrival of the holiday season.

Sweetpea and her Daisy Troop participated in the local parade, there were many parties to attend, I took Sweetpea to see a production of The Nutcracker and, of course, my annual Cookie Swap (where my cookies actually won a ribbon LOL)!

It's hard to believe how quickly this day has approached - and just as quickly, it will be gone.

So, as I am sitting in the car on the way to celebrate the holiday with my in-laws, I take this time to wish you and yours a very happy holiday! May it be filled with those you love!

Ho ho ho!

-- Posted on the run from my iPhone

Review: If I Stay

2009-12-06T10:28:00.005-05:00

A critically acclaimed novel that will change the way you look at life, love, and family.

In the blink of an eye everything changes. Seventeen-year-old Mia has no memory of the accident; she can only recall what happened afterwards, watching her own damaged body being taken from the wreck. Little by little she struggles to put together the pieces - to figure out what she has lost, what she has left, and the very difficult choice she must make. Heartwrenchingly beautiful, Mia's story will stay with you for a long, long time.

Wow! That's all I can say about this book. Gayle Forman took that whole "life flashing before your eyes" scenario to the next level!
I read this book in a day and a half - and the only reason it took me that long was because I started late in the day and read late into the night until my eyes couldn't focus anymore... so I had to put the book down and go to bed.

It really makes you stop and think about life - your own life - and everything in it right down to the smallest details.

Once you pick it up, you won't want to put this book down until it's done - and even then you want it to keep going so you can read more about Mia.

Perfect winter reading. Curl up with a blanket and a cup of hot chocolate and settle in. If you're like me, you won't put it down until you've read it cover to cover.

Happy Thanksgiving!

2009-11-26T10:43:00.002-05:00

I am thankful for quite a lot. My family, my friends, my job, my health... just to name a few. Like everybody else, there's always something that could be better but I also know there are a lot of people out there who have much less and may not have a lot to be thankful for.

Sweetpea and I were out having a special breakfast together yesterday at Panera Bread and she caught a glimpse of the tree they had in the main entryway. She thought it was decorated with regular ornaments and asked if she could take a look at it. She discovered that it was an "angel tree" for kids with Cancer. She came running back to me, telling me what it was and asked if we could pick one so that a sick kid could have something to play with at Christmas. She did that. All on her own. I am very thankful for her - and especially proud of how she always thinks of others. She took her time and looked at all of them before deciding on the one child she wanted to help. I just wish we could have helped more...

Wishing you all a wonderful day filled with family and friends and many reasons to be thankful!

Great American Teach-In

2009-11-19T09:04:00.003-05:00

Yesterday was the Great American Teach-In at our area schools. It's a day for adults to teach kids about their professions, their hobbies, their heritage... just about anything.

Sweetpea's school had quite a few interesting things. A Native American dressed in full garb and bearing many items that Native Americans use - he even did some dances for the kids. A man who lived in Australia for many years brought along some of his items and things he learned - including a didgeridoo. A woman came to talk about traveling. One man did cool science experiments. One man came in to talk about being a chef... just to name a few.

My friend The EcoChic also spent some time at her son's school talking about recycling.

I spent the day volunteering also. Now, mind you, I certainly wasn't as exciting as some of the guests, but I did what I enjoy - reading. I had Sweetpea help me pick out one of her favorite books (including the stuffed friend that goes with it) and I went in and read to five 1st Grade classes and two 2nd Grade classes. The book was called "Duck Soup" by Jackie Urbanovic. All the kids seemed to really enjoy it - and I knew they were actually listening when they laughed at the appropriate spots, "eww"ed at the appropriate spots and clapped and thanked me when I was done.

Reading is one of my family's favorite hobbies and I was glad to have the opportunity to pass along that hobby to so many kids.

National Memory Screening Day

2009-11-17T21:46:00.003-05:00

I know it's late in the day, but until midnight it is still National Memory Screening Day. I'm just a little slow on the uptake :)

The National Memory Screening organization is an initiative of the Alzheimer's Foundation of America.

The ongoing initiative of the Nat'l Memory Screening and AFA is to list free, confidential memory screenings that local organizations are offering in their communities throughout the year but the annual event of National Memory Screening Day is held each November to promote early detection of memory problems as well as Alzheimer's disease and related illnesses, and encourages appropriate intervention. Qualified healthcare professionals at community venues nationwide offer free, confidential memory screenings, education about memory screenings and successful aging, and follow-up resources.

These screenings are not a diagnosis, but can suggest whether a medical evaluation would be beneficial. Extensive study has indicated that these screenings are of value to individuals who participate in them.

Unfortunately, with an issue as sensitive as Alzheimer’s disease and related illnesses, there is often misinformation. AFA created this fact sheet to address some of the more common misconceptions about memory screening and National Memory Screening Day. AFA believes that all individuals should be empowered to make informed decisions to better manage their own health, not discouraged from screening based on misinformation.

There are lots of resources out there for help - please don't be afraid to check them out.

*From Nat'l Memory Screening and AFA websites*

Lunchbox Love

2009-11-11T07:31:00.002-05:00

My friend MommyDoodles has a new, awesome giveaway going on that I think is the coolest thing ever - Kids lunchbox cards!

Say goodbye to the "napkin notes". Send your child to school with an illustrated, fun lunch time riddle.

Head on over to MommyDoodles and check it out for yourself!

November - Nat'l Alzheimer's Awareness

2009-11-03T22:07:00.002-05:00

*from the Alzheimer's Association site*

November is National Alzheimer's Disease Awareness Month and National Family Caregivers Month.

According to the Alzheimer’s Association 2009 Alzheimer’s Disease Facts and Figures report, there are more than 5 million Americans living with Alzheimer’s and as many as 10 million family caregivers. This November, during National Alzheimer’s Disease Awareness Month and National Family Caregivers Month, the Alzheimer’s Association is providing insight and support to those caring for someone with Alzheimer’s.

About NADAM
Since its founding in 1980, the Alzheimer's Association has been the leader in making the fight against Alzheimer’s a national priority, a call that resonates during November, which is National Alzheimer’s Disease Awareness Month.

After designating a National Alzheimer’s Disease Week in 1982, President Ronald Reagan helped to launch a national campaign against Alzheimer’s disease in 1983, calling members of the Alzheimer's Association to the White House for the signing of a proclamation declaring National Alzheimer’s Disease Month.

Alzheimer’s Association founder Jerome Stone led a group of family caregivers, Association volunteers and staff in the effort to bring attention to the cause on Capitol Hill. That advocacy effort continues even stronger today with Association public policy staff and volunteers leading the call for increased government funding for critical Alzheimer research and support programs.

Join us and help move the Alzheimer cause forward. Here are some simple ways you can make a difference:

I've done my donation and am just waiting on my awareness bracelet to wear this month.

If you want to learn more, just head on over to the National Alzheimer's Association.

Happy Halloween!

2009-10-31T13:44:00.001-04:00

We're spending a few moments sitting in the shade and drinking frozen lemonade so I thought I'd take a moment to wish all my blog friends a very Happy Halloween!

We're spending Halloween this year at Disney to celebrate both my and Sweetpea's birthdays!

The most magical birthday ever!

I hope you all have a safe but fun Halloween!

Trick-or-treat!

-- Post From My iPhone

BON JOVI Excitement!!!!

2009-10-22T22:10:00.002-04:00

Bon Jovi just announced "The Circle Tour" dates... and it looks like I'll get to spend my anniversary drooling over Jon!! Yay for me!! Although I'm sure hubby won't be quite as excited.. love ya hun :)

Review: The Blackberry Diaries

2009-10-19T21:51:00.003-04:00

The BlackBerry, says Kathy Buckworth in her witty new book, is truly the "whining toddler of technology," constantly buzzing, poking and distracting its owner from whatever it is she’s trying to accomplish. In this way, it bears an uncanny resemblance to the uncooperative two-year-old hanging off a mother’s leg at the Motor Vehicle office. And is that BlackBerry holster really any different from a Baby Bjorn? No, according to the author. When either squeaks, Mom jumps. Still not convinced? Consider Buckworth’s irrefutable facts: Both “start up” upon entering the washroom. Both go off in the middle of the night, even when they’re supposedly turned off. Both require time alone plugged into a one-way communication device to be recharged: for the BlackBerry, it’s the USB cord; for the kid, the television set or GameCube. This comic guide to the travails of new motherhood shows the acclaimed humorist at her best.

I actually got the opportunity to read this book thanks to my friend MommyDoodles. She is celebrating her Blogiversary and going to be giving it away soon so she wanted some reviews for it.

I found it to be an entertaining book. However, I did find it's not really one to sit down and just read cover to cover like a story. It was more a case of a stress reliever or just something to make me laugh if I needed it.
I enjoyed her anecdotes and descriptions of day to day life - and sometimes made me see things in a different point of view and made me go "hmmmmm".

I couldn't completely follow some of the scenarios because I don't have a BB. Having an iPhone is similar as far as the addiction and the constant checking of email, etc. But I don't get the constant buzzing and beeping as I get new messages. It still made me laugh because I could see myself doing some of the same things in the same situations.

All in all, I enjoyed reading it. It took me longer than I thought when I saw the size of it - but that was more because, as I said, I found it better reading as a stress reliever at the end of the day.

Definitely one to read if you have that BB addiction or have to find ways to juggle everything in your day.

Finally!!

2009-10-13T08:26:00.002-04:00

Hubby and I had our final meeting with the appropriate people this morning and Sweetpea is finally going to be starting her gifted classes - TOMORROW!!

It's been a long time coming it seems - to get from April to now. But in talking with the Gifted Teacher, it will be well worth the wait.

I can't wait for Sweetpea to have the opportunity to feel more challenged in school.

I'm sure I'll be updating as she progresses... and I can't wait to hear from her how it goes tomorrow.

In the year 2016...

2009-10-02T22:22:00.001-04:00

...the Summer Olympics will be held in Rio de Janeiro. Way to go Brazil!
The first time ever the games will be held in South America!

(This post was also a test... I tried to post earlier but couldn't get it to work... I figured out the issue - but hours after I wanted to post... better late than never I suppose)

-- Posted on the run from my iPhone

Breast Cancer Awareness Month

2009-10-01T16:38:00.002-04:00

It's October 1st - the start of Breast Cancer Awareness Month.
This year, NBCAM is celebrating it's 25th year of awareness, education and empowerment!

Some facts on NBCAM (from ncbam.org)

The first NBCAM program took place in October 1985 as a week-long event to fill the information void in public communication about breast cancer. The founding members of the Board of Sponsors, the American Academy of Family Physicians, AstraZeneca Healthcare Foundation and CancerCare, Inc., distributed brochures, spoke to news reporters, and testified before a U.S. Congressional committee about the crucial need for widespread access to mammography.
Today the National Breast Cancer Awareness Month (NBCAM) organization is comprised of several national public service organizations, professional medical associations, and government agencies working in partnership to build breast cancer awareness, share information and provide access to screening services.
October is designated as Breast Cancer Awareness Month, however, at NBCAM, breast cancer awareness and education is a year-round mission.

There are various events in honor of Breast Cancer Awareness Month taking place all over the country. Walks, symposiums, conferences and National Mammography Day just to name a few.

Check out your area and see how you can help support this very important cause.

World Alzheimer's Day

2009-09-21T21:44:00.003-04:00

Today is World Alzheimer's Day. 35 million people worldwide are living with Alzheimer's or dementia and the number of people being affected is increasing at a rapid rate. Every 70 seconds someone develops Alzheimer's!

It's also a disease that hits close to home for me. My maternal grandfather lived with the disease for years. My grandmother tried to take care of him herself but she couldn't continue to do it by herself so she had to put him in a specialized nursing home for Alzheimer's patients.
He forgot how to talk, he forgot how to walk, he forgot who people were... it is a frustrating and horrifying disease - and a sad one for the loved ones of those affected. He passed away from complications of the disease in December of 2006.

The Alzheimer's Association's vision is to see a world without Alzheimer's. But they can't do it alone.
Their hope is that World Alzheimer's Day brings awareness worldwide of how widespread this disease is - and to one day find a cure.

Think about it. You can help fight Alzheimer's with just $5! And hopefully one day there will no longer need to be a World Alzheimer's Day...

I love you and miss you Papa!

Ahoy Matey!

2009-09-19T16:23:00.002-04:00

Arrr! It's National Talk Like a Pirate Day!
So live it up, drink some rum, and do some treasure hunting!

Yo ho ho!

-- Posted on the run from my iPhone

No more "Dirty Dancing"

2009-09-14T21:44:00.003-04:00

I'm shocked! I was at work all day so I didn't hear the news until hubby texted me this evening. Patrick Swayze... it's just hard to believe - even knowing that he was sick and fighting cancer - it's just one of those things that you think will never happen.

A 20-month battle with pancreatic cancer. At least he died peacefully with his family at his side...

RIP Patrick Swayze
1952-2009

Ice Cream anyone?

2009-09-13T20:51:00.003-04:00

What: 8th Annual “World’s Largest Ice Cream Social”
When: Thursday, September 24th from 5:00-8:00pm
Where: Any Cold Stone Creamery®

Head to your local Cold Stone Creamery on September 24th and for a donation to the Make-A-Wish Foundation, they will dish up free ice cream.

This September all Cold Stone Creamery locations nationwide will host a month-long fundraising celebration, culminating with this huge Ice Cream Social!

They have supported the Make-A-Wish Foundation since 2002 and this year's Make-A-Wish® kid is 5-year-old Jack who teamed with Cold Stone Creamery’s Tastemaster™ Ray Karam to create his own ice cream creation: sweet cream ice cream mixed with brownie, sprinkles and caramel.

During the month, every Cold Stone store will sell customizable paper wish stars for $1 each to benefit the local Make-A-Wish chapter. During the “World’s Largest Ice Cream Social,” guests will receive a 3-ounce portion of Jack’s creation when making a donation.

Ice cream lovers and supporters of the Make-A-Wish Foundation are encouraged to visit their local Cold Stone Creamery on Thursday, Sept. 24, and throughout the month, to participate in the fundraising festivities.

A Ring-er of a deal!

2009-09-12T21:51:00.003-04:00

So a couple of days ago I get an email from my friend MommyDoodles. I had won the latest contest on her blog! A Tungsten Ring!

Just for reading her blog, commenting, following her on Facebook and on Twitter, I got myself entered and by a random shuffle I got chosen.

I think I'm liking this whole online thing more and more :)
Stay tuned - I am finding more exciting and interesting things to send your way!

Thank you MommyDoodles!!

09/09/09

2009-09-09T17:12:00.004-04:00

It is a big day in our household today. The wait is over - Beatles Rockband is out!
This is something hubby has been waiting a long time for - and spent the money to purchase the original Rockband set just so he could be ready for it.

There has been nothing but Beatles music playing in our house for the past couple of weeks in anticipation of today's release :)

Not only did the game make it's debut today but the complete Beatles music collection has gotten an overhaul as well.

Hubby, of course, got his hands on that as well... I think I'm going to be surrounded by Beatles for quite awhile.

But now you must excuse me. We are about to play Beatles Rockband as a family....

Rays Blues

2009-09-07T20:43:00.002-04:00

Horrible, horrible news today in the Rays baseball world. Carlos Pena broke 2 fingers today when he got hit by a pitch and is out for the rest of the season!

The Rays have no chance at the pennant now with their top player down for the count :(
I guess there's always next year...

Reviews, Reviews, Reviews

2009-09-03T10:55:00.003-04:00

Thanks to my good friend The EcoChic, I have recently joined forces with a site for book review bloggers.
They send me books, I read them and blog about them. It's that easy!

So, be on the lookout. I have requested my first book from Thomas Nelson and will most certainly have my review up as soon as I have finished reading it!

Subway School Rewards

2009-08-31T17:41:00.003-04:00

Do you have a Subway card? If you do, you can help raise money for your school every time you use it.
Just link your card to your school and every time you make a purchase, your school will get a portion.

The more you use it, the more money your school gets. Tell your family and friends to link their cards too and your school will benefit even more!

I've got my card linked, go get yours linked too!

Look Out 1st Grade!

2009-08-25T09:23:00.000-04:00

So I dropped Sweetpea off for her first day of school today.
I'm having a bitter/sweet morning - she's officially a 1st Grader... No longer a little girl. My only solace was that she still wanted me to walk her to class, holding my hand the whole way, and then gave me a great big hug before I left her.

She walked into her class, emptied out her backpack into her very own desk and sat proudly in her chair.

She's excited. She loves school. And I guess I can't really keep her from growing up - no matter how much I don't want her to... *sniff sniff*

-- Posted on the run from my iPhone

She did it!

2009-08-20T19:11:00.000-04:00

Sweetpea really worked hard at her reading this summer and it has paid off. She accepted and, as of this evening, officially completed the Reading with the Rays Summer Reading program!

Next step is to turn in her completed game card for that ticket to a Rays Game!

I am so proud of her! My little girl is growing up.

-- Posted on the run from my iPhone

PTA President Extraordinaire

2009-08-19T19:14:00.003-04:00

With school almost back in session, it means my PTA duties have begun.
This afternoon, after much confusion, we had our first board meeting. And, like any good President, I didn't know what this first meeting was for LOL
I had to rely on the others who have been on the board for years to tell me what the first meeting was all about. I was on the board last year but came in to everything after school had already started so I missed the whole first meeting...

I have to do my bit in the "Back to School" video tomorrow morning. Just 60-90 seconds of introducing myself and encouraging families to join. This will be played at the Open House Monday night... great!

This evening I have spent some time creating a Facebook group and a Twitter account to help spread the word of our events.
Next up is a website or blog for the same purpose. First, though, I want to see how much of an online presence our families have. There will be a form in the back to school packets for parents to fill out if they have email or online access.
The school is trying to go green and not print out newsletters anymore - instead, they will be emailed to as many families as possible. I'm sure my friend, The EcoChic will love that! :)

I'm still not sure of this whole President thing, but I'm sure as the year goes on it will just get easier... I hope...

The End of Summer...

2009-08-17T20:58:00.001-04:00

...is upon us. Sweetpea goes back to school next week.

We spent the day today checking items off of that back to school list.
I took her to get her eyes checked for the first time and, as expected, she has no problems. I felt like I had been a slacker since she had never had them checked, but at the same time, she wasn't showing any need to have them checked. I just figured that back to school was a good time to get it done.

From there I took her to get her haircut. I left it up to her to decide how she wanted it cut.
She looks like such the big girl now with her 1st Grader hair cut. When did she grow up??

And speaking of growing, I also had to take her today to get some new shoes. They measured her foot for me and she grew a half-size over the summer!

I still have to get her registered for before/after school care and get her the supplies she needs.

I'm just not ready for her to be a 1st Grader yet...I need to find a way to keep her from growing up on me so fast.

-- Posted on the run from my iPhone

Review: The Physick Book of Deliverance Dane

2009-08-15T10:29:00.006-04:00

A spellbinding, beautifully written novel that moves between contemporary times and one of the most fascinating and disturbing periods in American history - the Salem witch trials.

Harvard graduate student Connie Goodwin needs to spend her summer doing research for her doctoral dissertation. But when her mother asks her to handle the sale of her grandmother's abandoned home near Salem, she can't refuse. As she is drawn deeper into the mysteries of the family house, Connie discovers an ancient key secreted within a 17th-century Bible. The key contains a yellowing fragment of parchment with a name written upon it: Deliverance Dane. This discovery launches Connie on a quest to find out who this woman was and to unearth a rare colonial artifact of singular power: a physick book, its pages a secret repository for lost knowledge of herbs and other stranger things.

As the pieces of Deliverance's harrowing story begin to fall into place, Connie is haunted by visions of the long-ago witch trials and begins to fear that she is more tied to Salem's dark past then she could have ever imagined.

Written with astonishing conviction and grace, The Physick Book of Deliverance Dane travels seamlessly between the trials in the 1690s and a modern woman's story of mystery, intrigue, and revelation.

I had a hard time putting this book down once I started it. I moved a little slower through the chapters on the 1600s at first but it didn't take me long to pick up on the old English-speak and move through them a little easier.
It made it all that much more interesting when I learned that the author, Katherine Howe, is a descendant of a couple of the women involved in the trials - one who survived and one who didn't.
The story is one that pulls you right in, wanting to find out where things lead - and there are twists and turns along the way to keep you interested. The ending is one you don't expect.

All in all, a great read and I'm looking forward to finding other works from this author.

The Circle of Life

2009-08-08T08:47:00.004-04:00

Last night was a sad night in our house. We came home from picking Sweetpea up from her grandparents' to find her beloved fish had left us.

Poor girl loved that fish and had been taking really good care of him, but he ended up getting some kind of fungus and had trouble swimming. We noticed it the other day and I stopped after work yesterday to get something to help him, but I guess it was too late. I had hopes because he seemed to perk up a little after I had put some of the medicine in the water... but it wasn't enough.

This morning she must say goodbye to her beloved Fin. We have left it up to her to decide if she wants another fish or not - after we make sure the bowl is clear of all fungus.

I think Daddy is taking her for ice cream today to cheer her up.

RIP Fin

National Immunization Awareness Month

2009-08-06T10:07:00.003-04:00

August is the perfect time to remind family and friends to catch up on their vaccinations. Parents are enrolling their children in school, students are entering college, and healthcare workers are preparing for the upcoming flu season.

Why are immunizations important?
Vaccines offer safe and effective protection from infectious diseases. Vaccines have eradicated smallpox, eliminated wild polio virus in the United States and significantly reduced the number of cases of measles, diphtheria, rubella, pertussis (whooping cough) and other diseases. By staying up-to-date on the recommended vaccines, individuals can protect themselves, their families and friends from serious, life-threatening infections.

Who should be immunized?
Getting immunized is a lifelong effort regardless of age, gender, race, ethnic background or country of origin. Recommended vaccinations begin soon after birth and may continue through adulthood. Being aware of the vaccines that are recommended for people of all ages, and making sure that we receive these immunizations, is critical to protecting ourselves and our communities from disease.

When are immunizations given?
Because children are particularly vulnerable to infection, most vaccines are given during the first five to six years of life. Other immunizations are recommended during adolescent or adult years. For certain vaccines, booster immunizations are recommended throughout life. Vaccines against certain diseases that may be encountered outside of the U.S. are recommended for specific regions of the world.

Check the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention website for more information about immunizations, including an Adult immunization schedule and the Childhood and adolescent immunization schedule.

**Source: MedicAlert Member Newsletter**

The Removal

2009-07-30T17:25:00.004-04:00

Today was the big day. Sweetpea got her cast removed.
It went well. She thought the machine tickled. She's still saying her wrist and fingers are stiff - which isn't surprising.
After it was removed, the doctor came in and took a look at it to make sure all was well. She still has a bruise on her knuckle, but the doc said that is normal and it would go away in a few days. He doesn't see her having any difficulties after a few days, but in the rare chance she does, just give them a call and bring her back in and they'll check her out.

We decided to keep the cast - at least temporarily. Scrapbooking mom has to have some decent pictures LOL. However, I don't think we'll be keeping it too long - it's amazing how smelly a cast can get in two weeks in the state of Florida in summer!

It was a little further than we had wanted to drive, but it was worth it! The staff was great and made Sweetpea relaxed during both visits. We liked them, but hope we don't have to see them again :)

Review: Respect

2009-07-23T08:58:00.005-04:00

From "Someone to Watch Over Me" to "I will Survive." It's the journey of women, told through Top-40 music in the new musical production RESPECT: A Musical Journey of Women. From the codependence of "I Will Follow Him" to the anger of "These Boots are Made for Walking," to the cynicism of "What's Love Got to Do with It," and finally to the strength of "Hero." Combining excerpts of 60 songs with women's own stories about finding dreams, lost love, relationship issues, entering the workforce, gaining independence and more, this show is "exhilarating!" *From the Respect website*

As I posted in the past, I won tickets to see this show but then, because of a mix up didn't actually get to see it until last Friday. But let me tell you - it was definitely worth the wait! Sweetpea, my mom, a friend and myself all had an amazing evening! And Sweetpea was the first to say she wanted to see it again! We all agreed with her... so, luckily, the show has been extended through the end of August.

There are only 4 performers in the whole show plus a three-piece band. The show is a great history lesson - without you seeing it that way :) You have too much fun singing and dancing along to all the songs you know. Even Sweetpea got in on it - sang the songs she knew and just danced along to the ones she didn't.

After the show, the performers were out in the lobby talking with everybody, signing autographs and taking pictures (of course, I didn't have my camera). They were all really nice and down to earth and each one even took a few minutes to talk with Sweetpea. One of them even said she saw her dancing and singing along to the show! She thought that was great.

It's a great show to see with your mom or just some good friends. If we do get the chance to see it again, we'll make it a "family" affair with Sweetpea, my mom, my mother-in-law and myself.

If you get the chance to see it - do it! You'll be glad you did!

Local reviews:
"Respect is terrific ... You couldn't ask for a more entertaining look at American women's history ..."- Creative Loafing

"'Respect' is a must-see for theatergoers who like a musical with something to say.” - The Tampa Tribune

Rewind

2009-07-21T16:55:00.005-04:00

OK... so I've been a slacker again. But after Sweetpea broke her finger last week, the rest of the week just flew by with craziness.

First thing Wednesday morning I called around to try and get her in for a cast. When I did get her in, it was at a place 45 mins away... so we had to rush out the door. Sweetpea was excited because she got to pick her favorite color to sport on her arm - purple. We took her to lunch afterwards but then spent the rest of the afternoon taking care of her achy finger.

Wednesday evening was spent at the beach with her Daisy Scout troop eating hot dogs, sharing stories and hunting for seashells. It also included a cast-signing moment :) It was a nice end to an otherwise not-fun day.

Thursday Sweetpea went back to camp because I had to work all day. Friday she stayed home with me all day because it was Astro Skate day... not a good thing to be roller skating while in a cast...

Friday night Sweetpea, my mom, a friend and myself all went out to see "Respect" - finally - and had a great time!
Then the rest of the weekend just flew by - and yesterday I refused to do anything all day because I needed a day of nothing!

I do have a couple of reviews to post - "Respect" and the latest book I just finished - but that will be in the next couple of days. Tonight, it's scrapbooking!

Casting Call...

2009-07-15T06:14:00.003-04:00

And we were doing so well... 6 1/2 years and Sweetpea had avoided any major injuries aside from the typical child scrapes and bruises.

Last evening hubby called me at work after picking her up from camp to tell me he was probably bringing her in to be seen. She had apparently injured her pinky finger at camp and it was all swollen and black and blue and she was complaining that it hurt.
He was about to get mad at somebody at the camp for not taking care of her or letting us know she had been injured when she told him that she hadn't told anybody!! This happened first thing in the morning - and she spent the entire day swimming and playing with an injured finger!!

She had x-rays taken and they showed a possible fracture at the growth plate - not the best spot as if it goes untreated she will end up with a "short finger" and other issues as she grows. So she ended up coming home with her entire right hand and lower arm bandaged in a temporary cast and we have to call a pediatric ortho this morning and try to get her in.

First hubby, then me and now Sweetpea... this better be all the injuries in our family for awhile!

"I love you Carlos!"

2009-07-07T20:44:00.002-04:00

Just enjoying the game and watching her favorite player! Go Rays!

-- Posted on the run from my iPhone

UPDATE: After 11 very long innings, the Rays win!!! Thanks to a 2-run homer by Pat Burrell!
And now that it's after midnight, I need to go to bed :)

Take Me Out to the Ballgame!

2009-07-07T08:27:00.004-04:00

Sweetpea is very excited! (And I am too for that matter)
We are all going to the Tampa Bay Rays game tonight at Tropicana Field! The three of us, my parents and my in-laws.

I grew up watching baseball. I can still remember when the Toronto Blue Jays won the series 2 years in a row - there were horns honking, people cheering in the streets... all kinds of noise! It was awesome!

Hubby was never really in to baseball until just recently so I think it's wonderful that we can all enjoy it now as a family. I love how Sweetpea is becoming a real baseball freak just like her mommy :)

Her favorite player is Carlos Pena... and he has the opportunity to get a spot in this year's All-Star Game. She would like everyone to vote for him! It only takes a second... and you would make a 6 year old very happy :)

Celebrating a Birthday

2009-07-04T16:57:00.001-04:00

I made it through work. We even had a big 4th of July potluck lunch to help us celebrate the day.

Hubby, Sweetpea and I are now celebrating at my in-laws' with a good ol' fashioned cook out!
Bratwurst, beer, fireworks and baseball - the simplest yet best way to celebrate!

I hope you are all enjoying your own little celebrations!

-- Posted on the run from my iPhone

Happy Birthday America!

2009-07-04T07:07:00.002-04:00

Before I head out to work for the day, I thought I'd post a Happy Birthday to the United States of America!
I hope everyone has a fun but safe day with your family and friends!

Review: The Undomestic Goddess

2009-07-02T09:18:00.004-04:00

Workaholic attorney Samantha Sweeting has just done the unthinkable. She's made a mistake so huge, it'll wreck any chance of a partnership.

Going into utter meltdown, she walks out of her London office, gets on a train, and ends up in the middle of nowhere. Asking for directions at a big, beautiful house, she's mistaken for an interviewee and finds herself being offered a job as housekeeper. Her employers have no idea they've hired a lawyer - and Samantha has no idea how to work the oven. She can't sew on a button, bake a potato, or get the #@%# ironing board to open. How she takes a deep breath and begins to cope - and finds love - is a story as delicious as the bread she learns to bake.

But will her old life ever catch up with her? And if it does...will she want it back?

This was your typical Sophie Kinsella book: funny, sweet, comical, an easy read. Another one you don't want to put down once you pick it up.
It's the perfect summer read - a book that pulls you in and makes you want to BE Samantha. Sure, it's perhaps a bit farcical but it's most certainly entertaining. You keep wanting to turn the pages to see what Samantha will do next.

If you enjoyed her Shopaholic series, you will enjoy this one too.

Book Swap

2009-07-02T09:01:00.002-04:00

Since I haven't been able to do much the last couple of days because of my bum knee, I've been spending my time laying on the couch with my laptop just surfing the web. In my travels I came across a website called Paperback Swap: Your source for swapping books online - read, swap, save!

Basically, you post the books on the site that you have to swap and other members do the same. You can then do a search of available books and choose a book or two you want to read. The owner of the book gets an email that their book has been requested and they mail it out to you. And vice versa if one of your books is requested. For each book you mail out, you get a "credit". You can request books up to the number of credits you have. The only cost, for now, for using this site is the postage needed to mail out the books.

I registered myself last night and posted two books (I have plenty more but in my state, I could only post the ones I had laying right by me LOL) and already I have a request for one of my books!

We have a house full of books since hubby, Sweetpea and myself all love to read - I think this is a great way to share the love of books and an inexpensive (practically free) way to get new ones!

If you are a true book lover, I think this is the perfect site for you to check out for yourself!

Happy Birthday Canada!

2009-07-01T10:17:00.002-04:00

Just a quick post to wish my homeland a very Happy Birthday!

It's Party Time!

2009-07-01T09:35:00.003-04:00

It's July 1st and what does that mean? Besides being Canada Day it's also the kick of my good friend The EcoChic's Eco-Summer Blog Party! Tons of fun, tons of giveaways - head on over to The EcoChic and check it out!

And while you're there, take a look at her new page! She's had a makeover courtesy of MommyDoodles. I just love it! If only my page looked so good LOL

Free Dental Cleanings

2009-06-30T09:02:00.003-04:00

Again this year to prepare kids for the return to school, the Pinellas County Health Department is offering free Back-to-School Dental Exams and Cleanings throughout the month of July.

WHAT: Free Dental Exams and Cleanings for school age children 4-18

WHERE: The following Health Centers:

July 1 - Tarpon Springs, 301 S Disston Ave., (727) 942-5457
July 8 - Clearwater, 310 N Myrtle Ave., (727) 469-5800, ext. 121
July 15 - Largo, 12420 130th Ave. N, (727) 588-4040, ext. 129
July 22 - St. Pete, 205 Dr. M. L. King St. N, (727) 824-6975
July 29 - Pinellas Park, 6350 76th Ave. N, (727) 547-7780, ext. 103

WHEN: Wednesdays only, 8 a.m.-3 p.m., each week will be at a different center

DETAILS:
The U.S. Surgeon General estimates that children with oral diseases miss over 51-million hours of school each year and untreated oral disease can lead to serious or even life-threatening conditions resulting in emergency room visits, extended hospital stays and costly medications. Preventative dental services reduce costly dental problems. Pinellas County Department of Health is offering free dental exams and cleanings to school age children 4-18 on Wednesdays, beginning July 1 through July 29, at the health centers listed above. The exams and cleanings are for children who have never been to the dental clinic at the Health Department and have no private health insurance. Medicaid is accepted. First and second visits are free. The third visit fee is a sliding scale based on income. A parent or guardian must accompany the child. No appointments are necessary.

EcoChic's Eco-Summer Blog Party

2009-06-29T12:48:00.002-04:00

My good friend, The EcoChic, is hosting her first annual summer blog party and she would like to invite you!

What exactly is a blog party? The EcoChic says: It’s a combination of networking, marketing, and social media. For readers it will give you a chance to meet other eco-minded people around the world. You will learn about new and innovative green products and services. You may even win one of the many giveaways our sponsors will be providing. For businesses it is a great no (or low) cost marketing opportunity. You will be able to reach an audience as far as the Web can reach. The great thing about the Eco-Summer Blog Party is that everyone is involved. Readers are encouraged to spread the word to their friends via their own blogs and social media tools.

Interested or have any questions? Email theecochic@gmail.com or visit The EcoChic's website.

More Testing

2009-06-29T10:55:00.002-04:00

Well, Sweetpea went through the final phase of her gifted testing this morning. We tried to get out of her what it was like, what she did, etc. but, as any typical 6 1/2 year old, it was like pulling teeth to get any information out of her. She did say the first thing she did was to find things that were different between 2 pictures and then find something that was missing... all things she loves to do anyway.

Of course, the lady from the County couldn't tell us much about how she did either because she hadn't scored it yet, but she did say she should have her part done and to the school in a few days - so it's just a matter of when there is somebody at the school to take care of their part of it.
She does this a lot - so she was very good at hiding any clues for us as to how Sweetpea did...

Now it's just the waiting game.

Crafty Day

2009-06-28T19:46:00.004-04:00

It was a scorcher of a day, but Sweetpea, hubby and myself headed out with the moms to check out a local downtown Art Festival that comes around annually.
And, as every other year, it didn't disappoint - we left several purchases later.

Here are just some of the places we visited:

These are really cool. They're called Hair Fancys.
We bought some for Sweetpea because they're so cool. We put them to the test and they have stayed in her hair ALL DAY without coming lose or falling out at all! Even through a nap!
They are very simple to put in the hair and they have several different colors and charms. Unfortunately, she didn't have any monkey ones but Sweetpea was able to find a couple she really liked :)

Sweetpea just bought herself a charm bracelet with some special money she had and one of the things she wanted to look for today was another charm. We were able to find that at International Cut Coins. Here they take coins from all around the world, cut and craft out the images in them and turn them into various items. I had gotten one for myself a few years back made out of a Canadian penny. Today, Sweetpea picked out a charm cut out of an American Susan B Anthony dollar - an eagle.

While wandering I stopped by a couple of booths that I thought my friend The EcoChic would like.
One of them was Sun-Coast Globes. This company decorates items with paper napkins. It sounds strange but they actually had some beautiful pieces. They create them using either decoupage or papier mache techniques, depending on the item. They can also create special gifts using one of your favorite photographs.
The other was Sarasota Natural Candles. They specialize in environmentally friendly, natural soy wax candles. I stopped by to smell some of their "concoctions" and loved most of them. The wicks are completely lead free cotton or paper core.

There were plenty of other amazing and beautiful booths to look at. We were there for quite a few hours. If it wasn't for the heat I'm sure we would have stayed longer to finish looking at them all.

It was a wonderful way to spend the afternoon with the family. Can't wait for it to come around again next year.

Review: My Sister's Keeper

2009-06-27T13:24:00.004-04:00

Wow! Saw this yesterday morning and was stunned! It was really an impressive movie. I am usually not a sappy movie-goer, but, goodness, I was sobbing like a baby through the whole movie.

Story in a nutshell: After their daughter is stricken with leukemia, a couple conceives another baby to provide a donor match, but the family is torn apart when, after years of medical procedures, the healthy younger sibling sues her parents for the rights to her own body and how it is used.

Now, I had read the book years ago - Jodi Picoult is one of my favorite authors - but I really didn't remember the smaller details or the end (I'm really wondering if I actually got around to finishing the last few chapters). I have to go back and re-read the book now because I have found out that the ending is different in the movie. I haven't found details yet as to how it differs but, for me, it didn't matter because it fit with the flow of the movie.

Whether or not you are a Jodi fan or have read the book, I recommend the movie. It is a true "chick flick" so keep that in mind when making plans :) And make sure you have plenty of napkins or kleenex with you. You will definitely need them.

All in all, I give it 2 thumbs up!

Twitter-ific!

2009-06-26T18:03:00.003-04:00

I am becoming a real fan of Twitter!

Just for following the local zoo and remembering their previous tweets, I have won 2 tickets to the grand opening of the new koala exhibit on Monday!

My online presence is becoming quite profitable for me! Why don't you try it too?

-- Posted on the run from my iPhone

Sad Day in Entertainment World

2009-06-25T20:58:00.009-04:00

Wow! What a shocking day in the entertainment world.

First, Farrah Fawcett losing her battle with cancer and then Michael Jackson collapsing in his home of cardiac arrest and later dying in the hospital...

RIP to both of them. The world will most definitely be a different place.

Farrah Fawcett ~ 1947-2009

Michael Jackson ~ 1958-2009

Michael Jackson...

2009-06-25T18:21:00.001-04:00

...rushed to the hospital with cardiac arrest and now in a coma!

Update: CNN has not yet confirmed but LA Times claims he has died

-- Posted on the run from my iPhone

RIP Ed McMahon

2009-06-23T21:10:00.004-04:00

I'm still saying "wow"... I know he's been sick but it's just one of those things you think you'll never hear.

Ed McMahon ~ 1923-2009

He will certainly be missed!

Happy Father's Day!!

2009-06-21T09:30:00.001-04:00

I just want to take a moment to wish all the dads out there a wonderful Father's Day. I hope you have a great day with your families!

Lack of "Respect"

2009-06-21T09:07:00.004-04:00

A few weeks ago I won tickets to see a show at the Tampa Bay Performing Arts Center, Respect, on opening weekend. My choices were for Friday night, the 19th, any of the 2 Saturday shows or Sunday. I decided on the Friday night show since that was the easiest to arrange.
I got some friends together and made plans for a girls' night out. Some arranging had to be done (me, getting somebody to cover my afternoon shift for me and taking vacation time to cover the lost hours and a friend having her hubby rearrange his work schedule so that he could be home with the kiddos) but we got it worked out and were all excited to head out to see the show.

We drive the hour - in rush hour traffic - to the Center, walk in the rain from parking to the will call window and stand in line in the humidity only to find out the tickets for me were pulled for the wrong day!! The guy had pulled tickets for me for yesterday's afternoon show! Unfortunately they told me there was nothing they could do because they were comp tickets and, even if they could, the show was pretty much sold out so it would be difficult to even find us seats. I would have to contact the person who I won the tickets from the next day - which really didn't do us any good for that night...

We did make the best of it and still had our girls' night - hanging out at Outback eating a bloomin' onion, dessert and just talking - but it was still a disappointment.

Lastnight, with hubby's help, I composed an email to the person who gave me the tickets and copied the Executive VP of marketing and the head of promotions. Within the half hour, I got an email back from the VP asking me to call him on his cell ASAP.
Long story short, he was very sorry it happened and to make it up to me he told me to pick ANY date the show is playing and, as long as it wasn't sold out, he would personally make sure to get me good seats and have them at the will call for me. And he would also personally confirm to make sure it was correct.
He thanked me for sending the email and letting them know what happened. Most people wouldn't and would instead just stew about it and bad mouth them.

I was mighty upset and angry Friday night, but I think TBPAC has redeemed themselves. Not just because of the free tickets, but because the VP himself made a point to talk to me and sort things out and offered to fix the problem personally and return the good will that was taken away.

I think TBPAC offers great shows and programs and I really didn't want to feel poorly about them. Because of their customer service, I will certainly continue to support them and what they do.

This and That

2009-06-17T21:50:00.006-04:00

Wow! This week as been so crazy I didn't realize it had been so long since I posted an entry...

It has been quite the full week. Sweetpea is in her second week of swimming lessons so we have been at the pool every morning - and, therefore, ready for naps when we got home :)

Monday night we had a company come out to do an estimate on getting our roof replaced... and was completely shocked when it came back in 5 figures! But thanks to all the new roofing codes in the past couple of years (thanks to living in Florida with all the hurricanes) it takes a lot more to replace a roof... and therefore, costs a lot more money... about $6000 more than when we inquired a couple of years ago! I guess that's what we get for waiting. We had another company come out today and will be having a third come out on Monday. Oh, the joys of being a home owner.

Yesterday after swimming we headed to the library for a special music program Sweetpea was registered for. It was nice for me because having just finished a book over the weekend, it gave me a chance to do some searching for another one. Found a great one - "The Shape of Mercy" by Susan Meissner. I will review it once I am done, but so far I am loving it!

Lastnight Sweetpea and I headed to our friends' so I could do some more scrapbooking - and she could have her first non-family sleepover. She was so excited about it! She had a great time and both girls want to do it again soon.

Today we stayed at the pool for awhile after lessons so the kids could have some "fun" swim time. We always just pack a lunch to take with us so that we don't have to pack up and leave when the kids get hungry :) They can just have a little lunch break and go right back to swimming.
This evening we were back at the library for another special program. This one was based off the Pinkalicious and Purplicious books. The next one, Goldilicious just came out so they library had a little cupcake party for the girls so they could preview the new book.

Tomorrow, it's back to the pool and another "play day" afterwards. It's the last day of lessons so we're going to stay for some extra fun.
Tomorrow evening, Sweetpea is off to her grandparents' for her sleepover since both hubby and I have to be at work Friday morning. She always has a good time at these sleepovers - Nana always has fun things for her to do.

And then it's the weekend again... where does the time go?

Mommy brag

2009-06-11T10:11:00.002-04:00

I just received a call from the County. Sweetpea is going through the next phase of her gifted testing on the 29th of this month. I will update after it's done :)

-- Posted on the run from my iPhone

Family Time

2009-06-10T20:52:00.002-04:00

One of our favorite things to do on a summer evening is go to one of our favorite local ice cream shops.
The evenings here are wonderful so we park the car and walk the downtown strip - it makes me feel better about eating the ice cream :)

It makes for a nice little family jaunt and we get to spend some quality time together.
Tonight wasn't any different...right down to the messy Sweetpea I had to clean up after ;)

Guess what her favorite flavor is...LOL

-- Posted on the run from my iPhone

Lovin' Summer!

2009-06-09T23:34:00.004-04:00

It's been a few days since I posted about our happenings. Today was a full day so I figured it a good time for updates.

Sweetpea started swimming lessons this week - after a mess up on the City's part... but thanks to a good friend, things got worked out and everything is now A-OK.
We spent some time today after lessons with aforementioned good friend and the kids at the pool. Just hanging out, swimming and lunch. It was an exhausting morning! Sun can do that to a person.

We came home and took a much-needed nap. I realized about half-way home that I had spent a little too much time in the heat and was getting that fuzzy-head-might-passout feeling. Luckily we didn't have far to get home. After a good long nap I woke up feeling much better, although still somewhat tired.

Tonight, Sweetpea and I hung out with the same friends at their house - her to play, me to scrapbook. It was a prosperous evening as I was able to get everything finished that I had been working on over the past few months. Now I can catch up on some other projects :) It seems to be neverending when it comes to scrapbooking...

Now, I am exhausted and ready to call it a night. I think tomorrow will be a laid back kinda day.

Summer Movie Fun

2009-06-08T22:21:00.005-04:00

As they did last year, both AMC Theaters and Regal Entertainment Group are offering summer movie programs:

AMC Summer Fundraising Program
Kids and adults alike can enjoy the magic of movies on Wednesday mornings during the summer at AMC Summer MovieCamp®. Now in its 24th year, it has been a fixture in the communities AMC serves.

The program presents recent G- and PG-rated movies on the big screen every Wednesday morning, June 17 through August 5, 2009. Advance tickets will be on sale starting June 2 at 108 participating AMC theatre locations and online. Doors will open at 9:30 am and shows will begin at 10:00 am local time nationwide.

For more information, visit www.amctheatres.com/smc. A nominal admission fee of $1 is charged and all admission & concession proceeds, excluding taxes and operating costs, will go to AMC's charitable partners, Variety – The Children's Charity and the Will Rogers Institute.

During this time they will also be offering the AMC KidsPack for only $3
The movie schedule is listed on the above website.

Regal Entertainment Group Free Family Film Festival
Regal Theatres will be offering selected G and PG rated movies for FREE on Tuesday and Wednesday mornings at 10:00 am this summer!
It’s a fun-filled nine weeks of movies for kids and parents. Since 1991, Regal has provided this service to the community, and best of all it’s FREE!

For full information on movies and theaters in your area, visit the REG site!

Summer Reading - Update

2009-06-07T16:49:00.003-04:00

I know I just talked about this the other day, but I just found out about another, cool reading program for those kids who love baseball and our Tampa Bay Rays!

It's called the Reading with the Rays program and it's sponsored by the Pinellas County Library Cooperative and the St. Petersburg Times.

Head to your library today and get your kids to pick out their favorite books. Read enough and they can get tickets to a Rays game!

The best things in life...

2009-06-06T18:48:00.003-04:00

...are days spent with family.

Today was my parents' first "pool party" of the summer. Family and friends all gathered for food, fun and swimming. Can't beat that!

Summer in Florida is stifling for me, but these get-togethers certainly make it more tolerable.

Pools are fun, but please don't forget your pool safety!

Enjoy the summer!

-- Posted on the run from my iPhone

Summer Reading

2009-06-04T17:13:00.004-04:00

One of the most important things I keep telling Sweetpea is that just because it's summer, doesn't mean the learning stops - especially the reading.

In my family, we believe that one of the most important things we can teach our kids is the enjoyment of books and reading. If you can read, you can go anywhere and do anything. Every book is a different adventure. You can learn about anything you can read about. It is one of our favorite pastimes.

I have found that both Borders and Barnes & Noble have summer reading challenges to keep kids in the groove:

Borders Kids Reading Challenge!

Kids 12 and under must read any 8 books and then list the books they've read on the Reading Challenge Worksheet, signed by a parent/guardian.

Then just bring the completed worksheet to any Borders or Waldenbooks store between May 26 and August 31 to save 50% or more on selected items!

I do have a problem with this one though. I checked it out and the kids have a choice of only 6-8 items and the majority of them are learn to draw books or puzzles. Not really following along with the whole reading theme... doesn't make sense to me.

Barnes & Noble 2009 Summer Reading Program

Your child will need to read 8 books of their own choosing. They will use the Summer Reading Journal to write about their favorite part of each book. A parent/guardian signs the journal when it's complete. Then just bring their completed Reading Journal to a Barnes & Noble store between May 26th & September 7th, 2009 and get a coupon for a FREE book!

These are only a couple that I have come across. You may want to check with some of your other local book stores. Or, the best place, your local libraries. They usually have some summer reading fun programs - and there is never a shortage of books.

I hope your kids enjoy their summer - and their time reading.

Summer has officially begun...

2009-06-03T20:53:00.005-04:00

...when my daughter starts the morning by asking me "What can we do today, Mommy?"
After yesterday, however, I had to tell her that we were doing nothing.
We spent the morning just chillin' at home - and taking an early nap at 10:30am!

We did venture out just after noon to head to one of our local libraries. They were putting on a "Kiddie Karnival" for a couple of hours and we thought we'd check it out. We did stop to get some lunch at McDonald's on the way and ran into one of Sweetpea's Daisy friends so that was a nice surprise.
For a library function, the carnival actually wasn't bad. It was inside with just a bunch of little games with prizes, a craft table and face painting. It was free - with a donation suggestion of $1 - so it made it affordable.
My friend, C, and her kiddos also showed up so Sweetpea at least had someone to hang out with - and I did too :) We stayed and let the kids play for awhile so we had a chance to chit chat.

We left there and headed to JoAnn Fabrics to sign Sweetpea up for a few of their summer craft classes they put on for kids. She's excited about that.

We went home and hung out while waiting for Daddy to come home. I have to do grocery shopping so we decided to go out for dinner. Some pizza at Galley and a quick jaunt next door to Euro Kafe for some dessert, tea and a little baseball.

A great first day of summer! But there's still plenty to go...

The End of Kindergarten

2009-06-02T20:55:00.006-04:00

It was a bitter-sweet day for me today. It was Sweetpea's last day of Kindergarten... I am very proud of her, but at the same time, she's not supposed to be that grown up.

I just can't believe how fast time has flown. I didn't have an issue with her entering Pre-K or Kindergarten but for some reason knowing she's entering the summer before 1st grade is hitting me. She's growing up and I can't stop it...

It was a fun day though. It was an early release day and hubby and I got to hang around and spend the day with Sweetpea and her class. They started the day with a special "Open Court" ceremony where they buried a time capsule that will be dug up in 20 years. It was just very cool to see.

From there they went on to the end-of-the-year carnival the PE team puts on every year. That was fun - until Sweetpea got wacked in the head with a plastic baseball bat! I took her up to the office and got some ice and, of course, that solved the problem right away.

Next, on to the Luau Party that the Kindergarten team puts on for the kids every year. The kids. There were games, limbo, hula hoops, bubbles, water balloons, the playground to play on and plenty of food!
During the opening "speech" one of the teachers did before the luau, we learned that the Dunedin Elementary Kindergarten kids scored the highest in testing in the ENTIRE County! Way to go Eagles!!

The best part of the day for Sweetpea was the surprise limo ride at the end of the day! Her "boyfriend's" brother got Principal's List all year and his grandparents got him a limo for 2 hours as a "way to go". Both boys were told they could invite a friend to go with them and, of course, Sweetpea was the one chosen. What a scene it started at the school when that limo drove up! The Principal and teachers wanted to ride too LOL There's nothing like leaving school in a limo and riding to the beach just to get ice cream! :)

It was such a wonderful day! We came home and took a much-needed nap - and then got ready to have dinner with my parents who wanted to take their granddaughter out to celebrate her graduation from Kindergarten.

Let the summer begin!